Let's be honest, sometimes we all need a little bit of self-care, and that's especially true in the doom and gloom of winter. Besides surprising your partner or friends with gifts, the best part about Valentine’s Day should be finding the right gift for yourself.

Festival season and summer holidays are distant memories and long nights at home are on the agenda. That means it's time to stock up on your yearly supply of candles, incense, fluffy sweats, skincare... essentially all the things that will provide you with the wellness you crave.

Whether your idea of self-care is doing yoga while an incense stick slowly burns in the background or lighting a spliff in the bath and watching reality TV — we've selected items to treat yourself (and your loved ones) to that will aid in winding down.

Scroll down for our favorite Valentine's Day self-care gifts

Zordan Generazione Teapot Oliver & Emily

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Teapot Oliver & Emily


Zordan Generazione

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A warm cup of tea is a nice way to start or end any day and it'll taste even better when poured from Zordan Generazione's quirky teapot. If you're one to match your home goods then the mug is right up your alley.

Diptyque Candle 'Roses'

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Candle 'Roses'



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If you're planning to go deep into a self-care binge this candle is just what you're searching for. With a total of 120 hours of burning time, you can quickly fill your space with this enchanting scent for days.

Hawthorne Skincare Starter Set

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Skincare Starter Set



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Depending on your lifestyle skincare can be an afterthought at times, but it doesn't have to be. While navigating the realm of skincare for different products can be tricky at times, the best options usually come with everything you need. Hawthorne's starter kit features a hydrating face cleanser, shave gel, and a nourishing lotion you can easily apply twice a day.

Our Legacy Mohair Cardigan

Mohair Cardigan


Our Legacy

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Chances are your sweater game is lacking, and if it isn't a touch of mohair and alpaca is sure to bring some additional comfort to your 'fits.

Trussardi Stonewashed Greyhound Sweatpants

Stonewashed Greyhound Sweatpants



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The best thing you can get yourself this Valentine's Day is a new pair of sweats. Trust me, you deserve it.

L'Objet Bois Sauvage Bath Salts

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Bois Sauvage Bath Salts



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Nothing says self-cafe more than a nice bath with soothing salts to truly unwind. Along with the dried botanicals, the aromatic scents of wild bergamot and jasmine are sure to level up your downtime.

Ugg x Children of the Discordance Kenton

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Ugg x Children of the Discordance

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If you haven't had the opportunity to own a pair of Kenton's you're doing self-care wrong. Decorated with unique embroidery and lined with upcycled wool, you can pretty much wear these anywhere you want.

Diptyque Standard Candle Santal

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Standard Candle Santal



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Letting the smell of freshly cut sandalwood permeate from a candle produced by the pioneering parfumerie Maison Diptyque sounds like a perfect way to unwind.

Tekla Classic Bathrobe

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Classic Bathrobe


Tekla Fabrics

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All the best pieces of self-care occur while wearing a bathrobe and Tekla makes some of the coziest on the market. Cut with an oversized, slouchy fit for extra comfort, this one is crafted from 100% organic cotton with a thick 358-gram terry weave ensuring maximum absorbency.

The Grey Skincare The Highsnobiety Set

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The Highsnobiety Set


The Grey Skincare

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Though it's easy to get caught up with fast pace weekly routines, skincare should be at the top of your list. We teamed up with The Grey to bring you a set with the essentials – a cleansing charcoal face wash, 3-in-1 face cream, and a fragrance-free deodorant to keep you going and looking your best.

19-69 Female Christ BP Candle

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Female Christ BP Candle



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Scents are an amazing way to treat yourself to a bit of tranquility and can be turned on/off at a moment's notice. 19-69's Female Christ candle is bound to fill your setting with earthy scents, combining notes of eucalyptus, rhubarb, and cashmere wood.

Highsnobiety Garment Dyed Hoodie

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Garment Dyed Hoodie



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Hoodies are the gift that keeps on giving. Regardless of the occasion, if you're planning on feeling comfy and cozy this upcoming Valentine's Day our hoodie is a solid choice.

Byredo Body Wash 225ml 'Bal d'Afrique'

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Body Wash 225ml 'Bal d'Afrique'



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A cleansing body wash is a simple way to show some appreciation this season. Byredo's Bal d'Afrique is one of the brand's first scents and evokes subtle aromas of buchu heart and Moroccan sandalwood.

CDLP Y-Brief 3-Pack

Y-Brief 3-Pack



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It's easy to overlook the little things like buying new socks or undergarments every now and then. Whether the person you're gifting prefers boxers or not, they'll surely be thankful for this set of breathable, anti-bacterial briefs.

Socksss Socks

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The ethos behind Socksss is a simple one – high-quality "foot garments" you can easily make a statement with. The unique compression fit caters to your feet by providing a thin, breathable layer at the top and a thicker layer underneath for comfort.

Byredo Lip Balm 'Bergamotte de Bahia'

Lip Balm 'Rosa'



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An essential gift for those that constantly misplace their lip balm. The gorgeous packaging as well as the hints of bergamot and lime are sure to put a smile on your giftee's face.

Jil Sander Yoga Mat

Yoga Mat


Jil Sander

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Made from plant-based materials with a minimal design typical of Jil Sander, this is about as luxurious as a yoga mat can get. If the prospect of rolling out this mat isn't going to motivate you to do a yoga session, then I'm sorry to say that not a lot else will.

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